I think i’m just going to stop using the queer identifier.
For all intents and purposes at this point, I’m straight. Of course there are the occasional lingering feelings of attraction to people who identify as women or femme, but at this point, the majority of the time I’m found being attracted to someone or lusting after them or wishing for romance with them, it’s with a man. I used to feel a little more balanced before, but within the past year, things have really just tipped back to the straight end.
A lot of the issues queer people face for openly identifying as such are things I’ll likely never have to worry about, so I just don’t feel comfortable identifying as such. I don’t know what happened to change things for me, but things just… are the way they are.